Hi dear parents,
Yesterday only, I read an article about the children's miss behaviour or we can say the neglecting attitude towards anything....whether it's about disobeying parents, or neglecting their own things like study, health, etc.
Many of us, do always complaint that, their children are not doing their study or not respecting the parents....my simple question to parents is that 'Do you respect Your parents? Do you complete your job on time? Did you ever notice that your children must be watching or I may say observing your actions?' And if so then you have no chance to tell them to follow the same for you. It may be harsh but true.
E.g. Mother asks her boy to bring grandmother's medicine while coming back from school. The reply was," Mom please don't ask me such things to do, you can go and get it. I will be coming late."
This is how our responces are. Now a days even a small child has an ego problem. Why it's so? Just think over it....Are you the cause of it? Ok let me explain how parents are promoting this kind of attitude in children ( I am not saying that all the parents are behaving like this. It's for those parents who uncautiously make it happen).
Carring is the parents right but, overcarring sometimes hamper the child's growth. 1) Starting from their childhood we have to make them involve in the day to day work... I said 'only involve' this doesn't mean that you should do every job with their help.
2) By making them understand, how the things in the house work? And if mother or father is not at home then how they have to play their part?
3) Give them some money and tell them to get some things from the grocery shop. Observe their practical knowledge, correct them if necessary.
4) Teach them the advantage of sharing the things amoungs themselves or with the neighbours.
5) Tell them how important they are as a family member. Make them aware of their responsibilities.
6) For all the above things to work, you yourself must be cautious enough to play your part the best.
7) And the most important thing, appreciate them whatever good that are doing, to the society or to themselves...this is very important because this will encourage them to do more and more.
There are lot of things you can do for the betterment of your child...I have listed only few of them. Remember if every parent nurtur their child in a good, socialistic manner, then you are contributing in building a strong and responsible new generation.
If you think to add some more things and want to suggest me something please comment.
Thank you.
Yesterday only, I read an article about the children's miss behaviour or we can say the neglecting attitude towards anything....whether it's about disobeying parents, or neglecting their own things like study, health, etc.
Many of us, do always complaint that, their children are not doing their study or not respecting the parents....my simple question to parents is that 'Do you respect Your parents? Do you complete your job on time? Did you ever notice that your children must be watching or I may say observing your actions?' And if so then you have no chance to tell them to follow the same for you. It may be harsh but true.
E.g. Mother asks her boy to bring grandmother's medicine while coming back from school. The reply was," Mom please don't ask me such things to do, you can go and get it. I will be coming late."
This is how our responces are. Now a days even a small child has an ego problem. Why it's so? Just think over it....Are you the cause of it? Ok let me explain how parents are promoting this kind of attitude in children ( I am not saying that all the parents are behaving like this. It's for those parents who uncautiously make it happen).
Carring is the parents right but, overcarring sometimes hamper the child's growth. 1) Starting from their childhood we have to make them involve in the day to day work... I said 'only involve' this doesn't mean that you should do every job with their help.
2) By making them understand, how the things in the house work? And if mother or father is not at home then how they have to play their part?
3) Give them some money and tell them to get some things from the grocery shop. Observe their practical knowledge, correct them if necessary.
4) Teach them the advantage of sharing the things amoungs themselves or with the neighbours.
5) Tell them how important they are as a family member. Make them aware of their responsibilities.
6) For all the above things to work, you yourself must be cautious enough to play your part the best.
7) And the most important thing, appreciate them whatever good that are doing, to the society or to themselves...this is very important because this will encourage them to do more and more.
There are lot of things you can do for the betterment of your child...I have listed only few of them. Remember if every parent nurtur their child in a good, socialistic manner, then you are contributing in building a strong and responsible new generation.
If you think to add some more things and want to suggest me something please comment.
Thank you.
