Hi,
My first topic of discussion is "child pornography"...
This is the stringent topic...and many of the PARENTS even don't want to discuss such topic with their children... The first thing that hit our mind is...FROM WHERE TO START ?...Dear parents...most of u wl b surprised to know that one of friends, who s teaching in a primary school, has confronted a situation where a child ws complaining about his friend...that he is talking about the nudidity and sex, which he has seen on mobile...and these children were from THIRD standard...
And this is more surprising to know that....from where he found that video or pictures was...his parent's mobile...My friend told this to her senior... And what they do is to scold the child and worn him nt to do it again...I think this is my the right way to resolve this problem...
Firstly the teacher should make a good conversation with the child...asking him skillfully from where he or she get or watched such things?...is there someone who is promoting them to watch it?...try to make him or her comfortable...and plz do not scold or shout at them...The very common observation is that when we oppose the children from doing something which is bad...the children knowingly do the thing to see what happens...so plz do not scold...the best way out is to divert his or her curiosity towords the science behind that thing...
There is a need of SEX EDUCATION in India...and I think there is no restriction of age in doing this...what we generally think is that our children will not understand this or they are not able to know such things....and we destroy their curiosity and this gives rise to the Devil instinct of finding wt the parents or elders are hiding from ous...
Teacher, after such incidents, must keep attention on the child and try to analyse that...have he or she still pursuing the same things...that too nt by spying kind of thing...you cn make a healthy conversation with them and cn take out the things they hiding...
The most important task is of PARENTS... Wt u have to do is....first of all clear your mind set that your child cn nt do such things....this wl hurt u more...plz be prepare to face any situation... Dnt respond such situations aggressively... Try to understand your child's psychology... As I have told earlier..if u scold them the wl surely try to chase the same thing....so be relax...try to make the child comfortable... This is very important.. Take him or her to home...or a peaceful place n discuss with him what he has seen?..where he get those things?...is there someone who is showing that things to them forcefully or for the sake of joy...?...plz try to figure out this things...after all u know your child better...and must behave very carefully with him or her in this situation...
Remember if u scold or shout or beat him or her...u wl create a permanent barrier between your child's thoughts and yourself... Let him or her speek...let them free their inner emotions....plz listen them carefully... Unless u wl nt do this...u wl never ever b able to solve this problem...
This is wt I have seen and observed...plz share your views and problems you are facing in doing away the situation like this....this will help other parents facing the same situation.... This is the platform I am giving you...feel free to share your ideas on the same matter and wt you have done to resolve it..
Thanks..
Sushil
My first topic of discussion is "child pornography"...
This is the stringent topic...and many of the PARENTS even don't want to discuss such topic with their children... The first thing that hit our mind is...FROM WHERE TO START ?...Dear parents...most of u wl b surprised to know that one of friends, who s teaching in a primary school, has confronted a situation where a child ws complaining about his friend...that he is talking about the nudidity and sex, which he has seen on mobile...and these children were from THIRD standard...
And this is more surprising to know that....from where he found that video or pictures was...his parent's mobile...My friend told this to her senior... And what they do is to scold the child and worn him nt to do it again...I think this is my the right way to resolve this problem...
Firstly the teacher should make a good conversation with the child...asking him skillfully from where he or she get or watched such things?...is there someone who is promoting them to watch it?...try to make him or her comfortable...and plz do not scold or shout at them...The very common observation is that when we oppose the children from doing something which is bad...the children knowingly do the thing to see what happens...so plz do not scold...the best way out is to divert his or her curiosity towords the science behind that thing...
There is a need of SEX EDUCATION in India...and I think there is no restriction of age in doing this...what we generally think is that our children will not understand this or they are not able to know such things....and we destroy their curiosity and this gives rise to the Devil instinct of finding wt the parents or elders are hiding from ous...
Teacher, after such incidents, must keep attention on the child and try to analyse that...have he or she still pursuing the same things...that too nt by spying kind of thing...you cn make a healthy conversation with them and cn take out the things they hiding...
The most important task is of PARENTS... Wt u have to do is....first of all clear your mind set that your child cn nt do such things....this wl hurt u more...plz be prepare to face any situation... Dnt respond such situations aggressively... Try to understand your child's psychology... As I have told earlier..if u scold them the wl surely try to chase the same thing....so be relax...try to make the child comfortable... This is very important.. Take him or her to home...or a peaceful place n discuss with him what he has seen?..where he get those things?...is there someone who is showing that things to them forcefully or for the sake of joy...?...plz try to figure out this things...after all u know your child better...and must behave very carefully with him or her in this situation...
Remember if u scold or shout or beat him or her...u wl create a permanent barrier between your child's thoughts and yourself... Let him or her speek...let them free their inner emotions....plz listen them carefully... Unless u wl nt do this...u wl never ever b able to solve this problem...
This is wt I have seen and observed...plz share your views and problems you are facing in doing away the situation like this....this will help other parents facing the same situation.... This is the platform I am giving you...feel free to share your ideas on the same matter and wt you have done to resolve it..
Thanks..
Sushil
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